Why is it any time I plan an event everyone responds maybe, and they ask 1) for me to confirm 2) who else is coming.
1) I planned the event, it’s happening at the time and place I said. It will happen, I am not canceling.
2) I don’t know, come and you’ll find out. Also if everyone takes your approach nothing happens.
So grow up, say yes or no, don’t ask for confirmation or who else is coming. It will save what remains of my sanity.